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Parallel Parenting: A Workable Alternative? Part II
Part one of our two-part series on parallel parenting introduces readers to the basic idea of parallel parenting, as well as the structure and reasons behind it. No two families are identical: and no two divorces or separations will look exactly the same. The parenting strategies that work well for one family may lead… Read More »
Parallel Parenting: A Workable Alternative? Part I
Co-parenting. A word that’s become nearly synonymous with child custody. “Co-parenting” refers to the relationship dynamic between two divorced or separated parents who still communicate and cooperate as a “Co-parenting unit” in raising their kids together. There are many parents, however, whose relationship is too volatile to peacefully co-parent. At least in the early… Read More »
Understanding Family Law Emergencies in California: Part II
In part one of our two-part series, we introduced the concept of family law emergencies in California. Family law emergencies are complex situations that require immediate court intervention in order to safeguard a vulnerable family member, either from one another or from an urgent circumstance (such as sudden job loss resulting in precarious living… Read More »
Understanding Family Law Emergencies in California: Part I
Family law emergencies in California are complex situations that require immediate intervention in order to safeguard family members from one another. In California, the law has developed in a way to be particularly mindful of protecting children from potential harm. Family law emergencies might emerge in any number of circumstances. Unfortunately, domestic life leads… Read More »
How To Request a Restraining Order in California
A California Judge can issue a (initially) temporary restraining order upon formal request. A restraining order, be it temporary or permanent, is an official order that prohibits a particular action from another party. A person may seek a temporary or permanent restraining order for a number of valid reasons. Valid restraining orders have been… Read More »
Pros and Cons of Living with an Estranged Spouse During a Divorce
The last few years have been tough for so many. Tumultuous economic times put an even greater level of strain on those families who are also experiencing the emotional impacts of a marriage or partnership ending. Usually and ideally, estranged partners would each have their own space to call home throughout the course of… Read More »
Top Tips for Smooth Custody Exchanges
If you have kids, odds are that you and your ex will have to come face to face during custody exchanges. How often this happens depends on the parenting plan and custody agreement, as well as specifics of visitation. Most divorced or separated couples end up seeing one another on a weekly basis. But… Read More »
Military Divorce and Healthcare Benefits
Members of the armed services have some special considerations in play when they are going through a divorce. Health care, in particular, is often a top concern for non-military spouses of military members. Military life often involves moving from duty station to duty station. While it is not always the case, this frequent moving… Read More »
Types of California Restraining Orders and FAQs
Understanding the types of restraining orders in California is essential if you are navigating a criminal case or seeking a protective order for your safety. Here is a breakdown of each type, so you know which might be right for your situation as you navigate a divorce or separation. The Types of Restraining Orders… Read More »
Avoiding Inappropriate Communications in California Custody Cases
The Impact of Your Words In a custody case, everything you say can be scrutinized and potentially used against you. There are countless cases where an emotionally charged behavior or conversation changed the ultimate course of a child custody or visitation ruling. Emotional outbursts or offhand or inflammatory comments, while understandable, can negatively impact… Read More »